Wayne’s Word – banter

It’s a little nod to Wayne’s World, but instead of ‘party time, excellent’ (if you are aware of the cult nineties classic) I will be diving into one WORD each day. It could be something I learned, something bizarre that happened, a favourite word that I have rediscovered or just a thought that won’t leave me alone.

If you’re joining in on today’s word, feel free to use this tag to connect your post to the series: #WaynesWord

Today’s word is BANTER

After reading Dan Antion’s post today, I realised the characters were having great banter and it reminded me how cool this word is. I think it’s a word used in Australia and it is definitely popular in the UK and Ireland, however, I’m not sure about other English speaking countries. For those of you who haven’t heard of banter, it can be described as a playful and friendly exchange of teasing remarks. For example,

“There was plenty of banter between the teammates after the win.”

Banter is often associated with camaraderie and quick wit. It’s especially common in British and Irish cultures, where trading jabs among friends is a sign of closeness. However, banter walks a fine line—what’s funny to one person might come off as cutting to another. The best banter is mutual, clever, and never cruel.

In Northern Ireland, banter is practically a social glue. It’s more than just joking—it’s an art form. Friends “slag” each other off (tease) with sharp, often hilariously cutting remarks, all in good fun. If you can’t take a bit of banter, you’re seen as a bit soft.

Common phrases:

“He’s full of banter.” (He’s funny and sharp-witted.) “Just a bit of banter, don’t be getting thick!” (“Getting thick” means taking offense.)

I like banter the best when it’s lighthearted, not a joke with a jag! It should be fun for all parties involved 😊. BTW, happy Saturday to you all. I’m on my way home from work and couldn’t be happier!