A quiet shift

How have your political views changed over time?

Growing up in Northern Ireland, my sense of identity felt fairly straightforward. I felt British, reinforced by the fact that I held a British passport. That small booklet carried a lot of weight. It told me who I was supposed to be and where I supposedly belonged.

As I got older, education began to loosen that certainty. University didn’t just expose me to books and history, but to people with very different backgrounds and experiences to my own.

Over time, my sense of identity shifted. I started to feel more Irish than I once did, not out of rebellion, but out of understanding. Yet even that didn’t feel like a complete answer. These days, it often feels like the UK doesn’t really want us (or even know we exist), while Ireland doesn’t fully claim us either.

And strangely, that’s where I have found my true identity.

Rather than feeling caught between two identities, I’m happy to be uniquely Northern Irish. Not British, not Irish, but shaped by both. A product of history, education, conversation, and contradiction. My political views haven’t changed because I picked a side, they have changed because I was willing to listen and open my mind.

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  1. Being Scottish, I can relate to the pull in different directions. Im definitely Scottish first. Even though I have English and Northern Irish ancestry too (maternal grandmother was Irish, my dad was English). I feel Scottish more than anything. I think Britishness is something else … official but not part of how I identify, not sure if that makes sense?

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  2. “I was willing to listen and open my mind.”

    That is a very important observation, Wayne, and something more people should focus on.

    When I saw the title, I thought it was going to be about an easy night on duty. I was pleasantly surprised.

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  3. Interesting that it seems Northern Ireland is different from the rest. Glad you found a way of being that agrees with you.

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      1. I don’t know exactly where, but I’ve been meaning to find out. Partly out of curiosity and partly because I’m interested in getting dual citizenship. Unfortunately, he passed away many years ago, before I became more interested in my ancestry.

        When I find out, I’ll let you know.

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