Are you a good judge of character?

In a word, yes. I believe I am a good judge of character, not because I think I have some special insight into people, but because I’ve learned to listen more than I speak.

Even if someone is nice to me, I pay close attention to how they treat others. Over time, you start to notice patterns, how people behave when there’s nothing to gain, how they speak about those who aren’t in the room, and whether their actions match their words.

If my gut tells me to stay away from someone, I will listen.

I once heard this saying, “Your vibe attracts your tribe” and I am a firm believer of this 🙂