It’s a little nod to Wayne’s World, but instead of ‘party time, excellent’ (if you are aware of the cult nineties classic) I will be diving into one WORD each day. It could be something I learned, something bizarre that happened, a favourite word that I have rediscovered or just a thought that won’t leave me alone.

If you’re joining in on today’s word, feel free to use this tag to connect your post to the series: #WaynesWord

Today’s word is IDENTITY

Something strange happened to me today. A stranger asked me what part of Ireland I am from as they had heard my accent. I said I was from the North. They looked at me strangely, so I said I’m from Belfast. The response was shocking. “Eww” they said. I looked blankly with confusion. “Eww you’re British”. I was honestly speechless and just walked away.

Now being from Northern Ireland, I know it’s tricky as we can be British and Irish yet neither the Irish or British believe this (some, not all). We’re born on the island of Ireland but the North is governed by Britain. Some people will identify as Irish and some British. I don’t particularly mind being either but the older I become, I find myself identifying more as Irish. I don’t find it insulting to be called either but the fact that they made a sound and facial expression like they were disgusted, truly surprised me, especially from a young Australian person. I felt attacked for no reason.

Speaking from experience, many Irish people don’t consider us Irish enough to be Irish and many Brits don’t even know we’re part of Britain. Therefore, we really struggle at times with our identity, or at least I do on occasions. Does anyone else have issues with their identity or experienced something similar?

I know being Irish or British doesn’t define me as a whole and to be honest, I’m happy to be included in both. I also primarily consider myself to be a proud Northern Irish man, yet that is just one aspect of me. Identity also includes qualities, beliefs, personality, and expressions that make a person, not just where you are from. What are your thoughts? Do you have similar issues with where you’re from? I am intrigued to hear other views.

Wayne